So I will share my understanding, from my personal experience;
which closely reflect the teaching around the subject by a woman called
Antera . Twin Flames were spirits born together (this does NOT conflict with the eternal soul principle). You probably NEVER shared a past life… you only meet up when both of your spirits have evolved sufficiently to bare the level of expansion you bring to each other. The Twins initially face huge struggles (internal and external) if they come through these still holding onto each other then they are ready to bring their gift to the world. We all know that everyone has energetic gifts… when like minded people come together the vibrational level is multiplied (not simply added) like when I attend meetings at the Two Worlds Spiritual Centre in Nanaimo. But when Twins come together the energetic vibration is squared. It elevates the whole of humanity and in this time of awakening… more Twin Flames are being brought together because more souls are ready for that level of evolution.
Although we see Twin Flames joining as couples; the Twining is an entirely spiritual relationship. Personally, I have no romantic designs on my flame, but I can see how easy it would be to fall in love with someone who brings so much expansion into your world. A Twin Flame cares less about your comfort and happiness, then they do about your highest good and evolution. Twins will challenge you and often make you uncomfortable; movement is made from being in a place of discomfort.
And to answer your question, “How do I find my Twin Flame”. YOU DON’T. When you are both ready, you will be brought together and nothing you can do will stop it. So relax, enjoy this lifetime for all that it brings, live each moment from love and gratitude.
Have a joyous day.